There is no white knight…

Look…
Other people can not save you.
They can’t fix you.
That is far to much pressure to put on someone else.
It will also be a big let down for you because it’s so unrealistic.
Every person has wounds they need healed,
every person has been hurt by others,
every persons get depressed
and anxious
and grieves,
and feels shame….

All of us.

Every single one.

Stop assuming a white knight is all you need to feel fufilled and unbroken.

You dont.

Its just a distraction.

Everything you need has always been inside you and if you need help, GO TO therapy.

You. Have. To. Save. You. For. You.

Be your own soulmate.

Love you the way you want someone else to love you…

And if you share your life with someone, still heal that shit for you, love you for you!

Cuz here the piece everyone casually forgets: all relationships (friends, family, lovers etc.) will end, death or distance who knows 🤷‍♀️ but the important part is building yourself the foundation of stability so that when things end your not in your own way to greive.

Stop denying your feelings, experience then, let that wound air tf out, stop caging in every fear and thought.

Shadow work!

Be vulnerable but cautious.

Be brave, but use your head.

You have feelings, they’re there regaurdless if you agree logically, validate them, experience them.

EVEN IF YOU CHANGE YOUR MIND LATER.

I can feel empathy and anger for someone because I relinquish my control of the situation and except it as is.

There’s your key.